There comes a time in your life when you finally arrive. When surrounded from all your fears and insanity you stop suddenly and somewhere a voice inside your head screams, "Enough." Enough fighting and crying or struggling not to do it anymore. And, as a child that dies down after a burst of anger, your sobs begin to subside, one or two shivers run through your body, blinked, to curb the tears and through a mantle of wet lashes, you begin to see the world with new eyes. This is your awakening.
Do you realize that it's time to stop hoping and waiting for something to change or happiness, prosperity and security to come galloping over the next horizon. Accept the simple fact that he is not Prince Charming and you are not Cinderella (or vice versa) and that in the real world there are not always fairy tale ending (or beginning, for what it's worth) and that any guarantee of "since then lived for happily ever after "must begin to think that while you and feel a sense of serenity born of acceptance.
wakes you aware that you are not perfect and that not everyone will love forever or what you are doing, and that is a good thing. (They are entitled to their views and opinions). And you learn the importance of love and support and, in the meantime you do, you hear come from self-approval a new sense of confidence.
stop complaining and blame others for things they did to you (or you do not have) and you learn that the only thing you can really count on is the unexpected. You learn that people do not always say what they feel or hear what they say and that others will not always be there for you and that not everything about you. So learn to stand on your legs and take care of yourself and while you do this, you feel a sense of comfort and security that comes from self-confidence.
Stop judging and point the finger and begin to accept people as they are and overlook their shortcomings and human frailties, and while you do this, a sense of peace and contentment is born of forgiveness. You realize that much of the way you see yourself and the world around you is the result of all the messages and opinions that have been meshed into your psyche. And you start to make room through all the nonsense with which you have been fed about how you should behave, what should be the way you look and how much you should weigh, what you should wear and where you should shop and what you should drive, where and how you should live and what you should do for life, who you should marry and what you would expect from a wedding, or what you have with your parents.
Learn to open yourself up to new worlds and different points of view. And you begin to reassess and redefine who you are and what you believe.
Learn the difference between wanting and needing and you begin to discard the doctrines and values \u200b\u200byou passed or you never had to absorb from the beginning, and while you do this, you learn to go forward together your instincts.
learned that it is truly in giving that we receive. And that there is power and glory in creating and contribute. And you stop maneuvering through life merely as a "consumer" looking for the next dose. You learn that principles such as honesty and integrity are not outdated ideals of an era past, but the mortar that holds together the foundation upon which you must build a life.
You learn that you do not know everything, it's not your job to save the world and you can not teach a pig to sing. Learn to distinguish between guilt and responsibility and the importance of putting limits and learn to say NO. Then you can learn about love. Romantic love and family. How to love, how to give love, give and when to stop when it's time to go away. You learn not to project your needs or your feelings about a relationship. Unequal you will not be more beautiful, more intelligent, more lovable or important because of man (or woman) that hold the arm or the child that bears your name. You learn to look at the reports for what they really are and not what you wanted them to be. Stop trying to control people, situations and consequences.
learn that as people grow and change, so it is with love and you learn that you do not have the right to demand love on your terms just to make you happy. And you learn that alone does not mean lonely. Look in the mirror and you reconcile the fact that you will never be a fifth measure, or a perfect ten and no longer try to compete with the image inside your head and agonizing over how you "crowded". And even stop to engage in so much to put aside your feelings in blunt things and ignoring your needs.
learn that her feelings on the recognition of your right are perfectly natural. and that is your right to want things and ask for the things you want. It is sometimes necessary to make the requests. Do you realize that you are entitled to be treated with love, kindness, sensitivity and respect, and will accept nothing less. And you allow only the hands of a lover who cares for you to glorify you with their touch. and while you do this, absorption and internalize the meaning of self-respect. And you know that your body really is your temple. And you start to treat him and treat him with respect. And you begin to eat a balanced diet, drinking more water and using more time to exercise.
learn that stress and fatigue weaken the spirit and can create doubt and fear. So you take more time to rest. And just as food fuels the body, rice feeds our soul. Then you spend more time laughing and playing.
learn that, in most cases, in life you get what you believe it is up and that much of life truly is a self-fulfilling prophecy.
learn that any worthwhile goal to be reached you agree that you deserve to get there and want something to happen is different from work to see that happen. And, more importantly, you learn that to achieve success you need direction, discipline and perseverance.
also learn that no one can succeed alone and that it is OK to risk asking for help. You learn that the only thing you really fear is the great robber of all time: FEAR itself.
Learn to walk in and through your fears because you know that anything can happen to you to manage and give in to fear because it means throwing away your right to live as you choose. And you learn to fight for your life and not to squander it living under a cloud of impending conviction.
Learn that life is not always fair, that does not always get what you think you deserve and that sometimes bad things to people that the captain did not expect and if not whether they deserve. In these cases, you learn to not take things personally.
You learn that God is punishing you, nor is lacking to answer your prayers. It 's just the way life goes. And learn to deal with evil in its primordial state: the ego. You learn that negative feelings such as anger, envy and resentment must be understood and redirected or stifle your spirit of life and poison the universe that surrounds you. You learn to admit when you were wrong and to build bridges instead of walls. You learn to be thankful and take comfort in many of the simple things we take for granted, things that millions of people on the earth can only dream of: a full refrigerator, fresh water, a comfortable bed and a hot shower.
Start slowly, to take responsibility for yourself alone and you make a solemn promise not to betray you and never accept anything less than what your heart desires. Hang bells wind out of the window to listen to the wind. And you agree with yourself to keep smiling, keep trusting and to stay open to every wonderful possibility.
Finally, with courage in your heart and with God on your side, take a position, take a deep breath and begin to design the life you want to live the best of your ability.
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